
Think about it! If your answer is no, it was expected. A human being who has experienced real-life situations of disappointments is likely to deny being trustful. If your answer is maybe, you are certainly trustful. You have hope for the best, and a little room for disappointments. If your answer is yes, congratulations, you are not in denial, you are an exceptional person.
Although, it is advisable to trust less in another human being because the possibilities of disappointments are being proactively acknowledged. The tricky part is, people are naturally trustful to their loved and close ones. As a matter of course, trust, bond and love are inseparable. They normally go together like milk and cookies. Withdrawing trust from the one you love or bond with is like implying to live in worry. Furthermore, there are several relationships, friendships, and partnerships that ended because of distrust.
Human beings learned to trust from a young age whereby they trusted their parents to pick them up from crèche. As they grow older, they make friends and trust them with their secrets. When they become employees, they trust the company to pay them a salary in return for the work done. In matrimony, they trust their partners with their love and everything they have. In entrepreneurship, business partners trust each other with their investments, both time and money.
Also, if being trustful is not a norm, it is nature. The only time a person does not trust another person is either when that specific person disappointed him or her, or when they have no relation.
Question: Do you think to distrust one person who let you down affect your trust in other people?
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ReplyDeleteThanks a lot 🙂
DeleteI believe that trust is hard to earn but easy to lose hence I don't trust people easily even the so called loved ones reason being I want to avoid disappointment, but to answer the question I do believe if one person disappoint me to the point that I distrust them it could indeed affect my trust in other people.🙏
ReplyDeleteBut can we agree that time heals everything, even distrust?
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